Feel Safe And Secure

1. https://pathwaytohappiness.com/blog/emotional-security-safety/ - "Desire for closeness is from our emotional integrity but can also be from fear."
2. https://psychcentral.com/blog/what-it-means-to-be-emotionally-safe-in-a-relationship/
3. https://madamenoire.com/1066483/things-men-do-when-they-want-you-to-feel-secure/
4. https://www.elitedaily.com/p/4-red-flags-you-dont-feel-emotionally-safe-with-your-partner-10015642
5. https://www.yourtango.com/experts/iona-arratia/how-to-make-a-man-fall-in-love-with-you-be-his-safe-space
6. https://www.quora.com/Why-do-I-feel-safe-and-completely-myself-when-Im-with-my-boyfriend-I-never-had-this-feeling-even-with-my-mother 

Medical Procedures And drug Prices In USA

In the U.S., an Angioplasty Costs $32,000. Elsewhere? Maybe $6,400.

Herbert Wertheim -Another Warren Buffett

https://www.forbes.com/sites/maddieberg/2019/02/19/the-greatest-investor-youve-never-heard-of-an-optometrist-who-beat-the-odds-to-become-a-billionaire/

Colorful Unfounded Allegations

Beautiful examples of colorful, nicely worded unfounded allegations.

https://www.dawn.com/news/1524515

NEFT, RTGS, IMPS

Livemint: NEFT round the clock set to boost digital payments.

Wait 7 Months Before Going On A Trip

Femina: Alert! Wait For 7 Months Before Holidaying Together!.

Criminal Murderous Mind - Biren, Belara i

https://www.dailyo.in/arts/crime-kolkata-police-murder-in-the-city-belarani-dutta-murder-case-supratim-sarkar/story/1/23114.html

White Christmas

https://www.washingtonpost.com/weather/2019/12/17/here-are-your-chances-seeing-white-christmas/

Breaking Off

1. https://www.cosmopolitan.com/uk/love-sex/relationships/a19150853/how-women-realised-partner-wasnt-right-for-them/ - "My ex wanted to marry me, and I genuinely couldn't see a future together. Anytime it was brought up, it felt like I'd swallowed a stone. "
2. https://www.quora.com/Why-do-some-men-make-women-decide-to-end-the-relationship-instead-of-ending-it-himself-when-he-is-no-longer-interested
3. https://www.verywellmind.com/how-do-you-know-time-to-break-up-4175309
4. https://time.com/5373451/break-up-someone-love/ - "If nobody in the community [family] supports your relationship, that’s a red flag,”
5. https://hackspirit.com/when-is-it-time-to-break-up-15-signs-to-the-end-the-relationship/

To Leave Or Not To Leave

Inverse: Why people want to stay in their relationship is based on this economic mod. https://www.inverse.com/article/61626-breakup-economic-model-holiday-season: "So it is unsurprising that some people are afraid of being single. This can leave many people settling for less than what they want or deserve in a relationship when they do not have clear alternatives available to them. This is closely linked to a fear of regret, which makes us biased towards sticking with the status quo even if our reasoning or intuition says we shouldn’t."

Additional reading
psychologytoday.com: “I don't understand” as a buffer for intimacy.

Personal Guarantee - Reliance RCOM

https://www.business-standard.com/article/companies/a-question-worth-680-mn-what-did-anil-ambani-know-about-the-unpaid-loan-119121800262_1.html

Car Hacks You

https://www.washingtonpost.com/technology/2019/12/17/what-does-your-car-know-about-you-we-hacked-chevy-find-out/

Signs Of A Girl's Interest

• https://issuesiface.com/magazine/she-wants-to-feel-special
• https://www.quora.com/What-is-the-best-answer-when-your-girlfriend-asks-Why-do-you-love-me-so-much
• https://www.byrdie.com/compliments-better-than-pretty: "If you want to comment on appearance, there are hundreds of alternatives: Love your haircut, love your lip color, love your outfit today. Better to be complimented on a choice than on genetics.”
• https://www.quora.com/What-are-the-signs-that-a-girl-is-attracted-to-you
• https://www.themodernman.com/blog/my-ex-said-that-shes-sorry-for-giving-me-the-impression-that-she-wants-to-get-back-with-me.html: Lovely Experimenting - "A woman like that might think to herself, “I miss him and I hate being alone. Maybe my expectations were too high. Maybe if I give him another chance, things would be different this time.”  If her ex then tries to get her back (e.g. calls her on the phone, asks for another chance, promises to change), rather than make it clear to him that she’s not interested, she might let him believe that she’s open to giving the relationship another chance to see how she feels (e.g. does she stop feeling lonely and stop missing him).  This may go on for weeks, especially if the guy is trying to get her back via text, or if he’s still making the same old mistakes that turned her off in the first place.  He might think that she will remain faithful to him and give him another chance, but if another man comes along and makes her feel more respect and attraction for him, she will almost certainly open up to that.   For example: The new guy makes her feel attracted in ways that her ex can’t because he’s more emotionally masculine and makes her feel feminine in his presence, he is more goal oriented and focused in his life or he is more emotionally dominant and takes the lead in the relationship.  All of a sudden, she will pull away from her ex and focus her attention on the new guy instead.   If her ex then says something along the lines of, “Hey, what’s going on? Why are you being so cold and distant all of a sudden? I thought we were making progress towards getting back together again,” she will then say something like, “I’m sorry for giving you the impression that I want to get back with you. Please just leave me alone.”   Her ex is then left feeling confused and probably even a bit annoyed at her for giving him mixed messages."
• https://www.gothamclub.com/7-hidden-signs-she-likes-you/ Nice
• https://books.google.com/books/about/The_Cheating_Game.html?id=Zj5KyVUMEDEC Nice

Warren Buffet's Choices - Intelligence. Driven, Integrity

Inc.: Warren Buffett Says He Won't Even Consider Hiring Someone Who Lacks This 1 Trait.

Injunction Against "Distress" Sale Of Communal Property In California

https://www.forbes.com/sites/jilliandonfro/2019/12/13/judge-declines-to-block-sale-of-robot-startup-in-suit-filed-by-founders-wife/

You Make Me Laugh

He makes her laugh:

1. https://www.gothamclub.com/how-to-be-funny/ 
2. https://www.quora.com/Do-women-really-like-guys-who-make-them-laugh-or-is-that-something-that-guys-who-aren%E2%80%99t-as-tall-dark-and-handsome-tell-themselves

Online Dating

https://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/wellness/five-ways-to-enjoy-online-dating-while-improving-your-chances-according-to-a-psychologist/2019/12/11/c2aceeaa-1794-11ea-9110-3b34ce1d92b1_story.html

Places To Eat In Chennai - Inexpensive 31

Must Try in Chennai if you are a Food lover: (Pocket Friendly) 1) Samosa - Ritchie St. of Mt. Road Behind India Silk House ( Rs.10/- for 2 samosas) 2) Kachodi/ Kachori: After noon & Evening time at Kasi Chetty St and Patni Plaza on NSC Bose rd. Amazing Kachodi with corn flakes and chutney. 3) Idly : Thattu idly at Vaishnava Idly kadai - Ormes road kilpauk 4) Badaam Milk: Kakda Ramprasad at Mint St. Sowcarpet 5) Bread Bajji: Govindapanaickan St (Near Transformer) Sowcarpet 6) Paya Appam: Golden cafe early morning at 4 AM at Waltax Road. 7) Chola Battura: Loiee - Tambaram 8) Bun Butter Jam : Mount Road Buharis 9) Bhel Puri : Ajnabi's Egmore Fountain Plaza 10) Set Dosa Vada Curry: Dasa Dosa counter - Express Avenue 11) Dal Pakwan : Sidhi Vinayak Sweets Kilpauk 12) Molaga Bajji (Chilly Bajji - North Indian Style) : Ajab Mithai Ghar - Alagappa Road 13) Veg Upma : Woodlands canteen - Nardagana Sabha - TTK Rd. 14) Veg Meals ; Madras Hotel Ashoka - Egmore 15) Beeda/Paan : Nitya tambool - Besant Nagar - Near eden Restaurant 16) Aloo Paratha: Pait pooja - Thoraipakkam 17) Pizza: Superstar Pizza Perungudi 18) Paav Bhaji : Novelty - Mint St. Sowcarpet 19) Rasam Vada near Athipattan Street next to Zimson for Rs. 10/- 20) Pyaaz Kachori for Rs. 18/- at Elephant Gate Corner. 21) Bread Bhajji 2 Nos at back to Mint Big Temple at Rs. 20/- 22) Mayonnaise Vada Pav at General Muthaiah Street at Rs. 30/- 23) Andhra Punagullu 8 Nos Rs. 20/- at Pondy Bazaar. 24) Spl. Bhelpuri next Bata Showroom at Usman Road Rs. 25/- 25) Mixed Fruit Juice With Badam Milk Next to Mylapore Isabel Rs. 10/- 26) Chenna Samosa at Venkatnarayan Road next to TTD at Rs. 25/- 27) All Time Mango Juice at Rs. 10/- at purasaiwalkam next to Abhirami Megamall. 28) Nanari Sharbat Soda Rs. 20/- outside of Chetpet Railway Station. 29) Rose Milk near Karpagambal Mess next to Gandhi Mandapam at Mylapore Rs. 10/- 30) Badam Milk Rs. 50 big glass opp to Kakada better than kakada. 31) Agarwal Bhojnalaya unlimited Rajasthani Thali at Rs. 120 next to patni plaza. 32) Crispy & Hot Medu Vada outside chetpet Railway Station. 33) Samosa with Spicy Chutney Rs. 10 for 2 at Tambaram Sanitorium. 34) Sambar Vada & Rava Upma for Rs. 25/- at T.Nagar Railway Station 35) West Mambalam Venkateshwara Medu Bonda & Jeera Boli for Rs. 10/- 36) Granita for Rs. 60/- next to pondy bazaar petrol bank 37) Spl. Kerala Chips near loyala college at Rs. 30 for 250 grams 38) Any Flavoured Juice at Rs. 5 at Kodambakkam. 39) Veechu Parotta Rs. 70 at Bakya. 40) Nainappa Naicken Street entrance Chinnappa Chettiar Spicy Sandwhich after 4pm only available Rs. 20/-

Alzheimer's - Signs /Symptoms, "Going Home", Dementia

https://www.alz.org/alzheimers-dementia/10_signs


From https://lifestyle.livemint.com/relationships/it-s-complicated/what-caring-for-amma-through-her-memory-loss-is-teaching-me-111632130888200.html, very nice

Asking to go home: 

https://www.alzheimers.org.uk/blog/i-want-go-home-what-to-say-to-someone-in-dementia-care

https://www.washingtonpost.com/wellness/2021/12/09/black-and-latina-women-dementia/ Nice article

https://www.timesnownews.com/health/article/7-mistakes-that-can-increase-your-risk-of-developing-alzheimers-dementia-memory-loss-worsen-cognitive-decline/839554

Additional reading

• Sweethearts Forever. Then Came Alzheimer’s, Murder and Suicide.
• https://www.alzheimers.org.uk/about-dementia/symptoms-and-diagnosis/time-shifting: Asking adult son when he will go to school
  
• https://www.alz.org/alzheimers-dementia/stages
  
• https://www.completecare.ca/blog/things-not-say-dementia/
  

Caregiver Syndrome

http://www.cnn.com/2007/HEALTH/conditions/08/13/caregiver.syndrome/index.html

"Many exhausted, ill caregivers today don't seek help because they don't realize that they have a recognizable condition. According to a report from the National Consensus Development Conference on Caregiving, the most common psychological symptoms of caregiver syndrome are depression, anxiety and anger. Peter Vitaliano, a professor of geriatric psychiatry at the University of Washington and an expert on caregiving, said that the chronic stress of caring for someone can lead to high blood pressure, diabetes and a compromised immune system. In severe cases, caregivers can take on the symptoms of the person that they care for, he said. For example, a person caring for someone with dementia may develop progressive memory loss. Worse still, this syndrome can lead to death. Elderly caregivers are at a 63 percent higher risk of mortality than noncaregivers in the same age group, according to a study by University of Pittsburgh researchers Richard Schulz and Scott Beach reported in the Journal of the American Medical Association in December 1999."

Additional reading

• https://calmisc.blogspot.com/2019/09/home-care-of-relatives.html
• https://calmisc.blogspot.com/2019/09/euthanasia.html
• https://www.caregiver.org/caregivers-guide-understanding-dementia-behaviors (link isn't working as on September 21, 2021)
  
• https://www.beingpatient.com/voice/moving-after-dementia-diagnosis/: Good communication
  

Deception Correlation With Extraversion And Intelligence

https://journals.plos.org/plosone/article?id=10.1371/journal.pone.0176591: "The novelty of the work presented here is the finding that the effect of extraversion on lying frequency depends on intelligence (or, conversely, effect of fluid intelligence on lying frequency depends on extraversion level). This finding links the well-established relationship between personality traits and deception frequency with cognitive aspects of lying. The role of fluid intelligence here is unclear. It might have an indirect effect on lying frequency by making the person a more successful liar, which in turn reinforces the use of deceptive behaviors. Alternatively, one might speculate that in the context of current studies that higher fluid intelligence made the participants pursue deception, realizing it to be the most successful strategy."

Intelligence, Education, Smoking, Caution And Parkinson's

1. https://bloggingwithparkinsons.wordpress.com/2012/02/28/intelligence-and-parkinsons/
2. https://www.livescience.com/20008-parkinsons-disease-personality-risk-avoidance.html "Since the early 1900s, there have been reports that Parkinson's patients tend to be industrious, punctual, cautious and risk-averse." If one includes lack of social networking, then we have I**J (as in MBTI) as a good candidate. "The results showed that participants with Parkinson's had higher levels of neuroticism — a personality trait associated with experiencing more negative emotions such as anxiety — and higher levels of harm-avoidance compared with healthy participants. In general, participants' willingness to take risks tended to be stable over time, and Parkinson's patients tended to report they took fewer risks." Neuroticism (5 factor) is very similar to J (MBTI).

Additional reading

• https://www.independent.co.uk/news/health/intelligence-mental-illness-iq-study-findings-depression-a8005801.html
• https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0160289616303324
• https://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-7059935/Bipolar-people-seven-times-likely-develop-Parkinsons-later-life.html: "The average Parkinson's patient without bipolar disorder was diagnosed at age 73, and those with bipolar were diagnosed almost a decade earlier, at 64. The study's results, published in the journal Neurology, suggest that those with more severe bipolar may also be more prone to Parkinson's. People who had to be hospitalized due to the mood disorder were more likely to develop Parkinson's. And the more often they had to go inpatient, the more likely they were to develop Parkinson's. "
• https://www.theguardian.com/science/2015/aug/19/intelligence-creativity-and-bipolar-disorder-may-share-underlying-genetics
• https://neurosciencenews.com/iq-hyper-brain-body-7720/
• https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2000/11/001120072645.htm
• https://www.dementiablog.org/why-do-some-people-get-dementia/

Eu(rope)thanasia

The Personal Toll of Photographing a Story About Euthanasia

Additional reading
https://calmisc.blogspot.com/2019/09/euthanasia.html

Depression Plus Dementia (Parkinson's)

New Therapies Help Patients With Dementia Cope With Depression

Additional reading

1. Hypnosis Changed My Life
2. https://www.motomed.com/en/affected-persons/parkinson/?gclid=CjwKCAiAxMLvBRBNEiwAKhr-nIQIikqDHhoc-dg9wUNlfgVuCJMVDVIVYxci75YZFcrHgJAGU9nZKRoCVdgQAvD_BwE

Cougar - Sugar Mommy

1. https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/myths-desire/201903/3-reasons-why-women-might-want-be-younger-men
2. https://www.insidehook.com/article/relationships/why-women-dont-date-younger-men: "According to Engle, while women may be going to bed with younger men, that dynamic doesn’t tend to have much longevity outside the bedroom."
3. https://www.oprahmag.com/life/relationships-love/a28213457/dating-younger-men/
4. https://www.cosmopolitan.com/uk/love-sex/relationships/a28219132/women-younger-men/
5. https://hackspirit.com/cougar-love-young-men-older-successful-women-perfect-dating-combination/
6. 
   

Additional reading

• https://www.maxim.com/entertainment/jennifer-lopez-men-under-33-useless-2019-3

Evolution On. A Clock

https://www.washingtonpost.com/outlook/2019/12/06/ghosts-future/

Dog Is Mad

https://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/2019/12/04/no-wonder-jonathan-turleys-dog-is-mad/ - "“I get it: You are mad,” he testified. “The president is mad. My Democratic friends are mad. My Republican friends are mad. My wife is mad. My kids are mad. Even my dog seems mad — and Luna is a goldendoodle and they don’t get mad. So we’re all mad.”

Damn right we are! But nowhere in the Constitution does it state that a president shall not be impeached if people — or their dogs — are mad."