Wednesday, December 18, 2019

White Christmas

Breaking Off

To Leave Or Not To Leave

Inverse: Why people want to stay in their relationship is based on this economic mod. https://www.inverse.com/article/61626-breakup-economic-model-holiday-season: "So it is unsurprising that some people are afraid of being single. This can leave many people settling for less than what they want or deserve in a relationship when they do not have clear alternatives available to them. This is closely linked to a fear of regret, which makes us biased towards sticking with the status quo even if our reasoning or intuition says we shouldn’t."

Additional reading
psychologytoday.com: “I don't understand” as a buffer for intimacy.

Personal Guarantee - Reliance RCOM

Tuesday, December 17, 2019

Car Hacks You

Signs Of A Girl's Interest




Warren Buffet's Choices - Intelligence. Driven, Integrity

Saturday, December 14, 2019

Places To Eat In Chennai - Inexpensive 31

Must Try in Chennai if you are a Food lover: (Pocket Friendly) 1) Samosa - Ritchie St. of Mt. Road Behind India Silk House ( Rs.10/- for 2 samosas) 2) Kachodi/ Kachori: After noon & Evening time at Kasi Chetty St and Patni Plaza on NSC Bose rd. Amazing Kachodi with corn flakes and chutney. 3) Idly : Thattu idly at Vaishnava Idly kadai - Ormes road kilpauk 4) Badaam Milk: Kakda Ramprasad at Mint St. Sowcarpet 5) Bread Bajji: Govindapanaickan St (Near Transformer) Sowcarpet 6) Paya Appam: Golden cafe early morning at 4 AM at Waltax Road. 7) Chola Battura: Loiee - Tambaram 8) Bun Butter Jam : Mount Road Buharis 9) Bhel Puri : Ajnabi's Egmore Fountain Plaza 10) Set Dosa Vada Curry: Dasa Dosa counter - Express Avenue 11) Dal Pakwan : Sidhi Vinayak Sweets Kilpauk 12) Molaga Bajji (Chilly Bajji - North Indian Style) : Ajab Mithai Ghar - Alagappa Road 13) Veg Upma : Woodlands canteen - Nardagana Sabha - TTK Rd. 14) Veg Meals ; Madras Hotel Ashoka - Egmore 15) Beeda/Paan : Nitya tambool - Besant Nagar - Near eden Restaurant 16) Aloo Paratha: Pait pooja - Thoraipakkam 17) Pizza: Superstar Pizza Perungudi 18) Paav Bhaji : Novelty - Mint St. Sowcarpet 19) Rasam Vada near Athipattan Street next to Zimson for Rs. 10/- 20) Pyaaz Kachori for Rs. 18/- at Elephant Gate Corner. 21) Bread Bhajji 2 Nos at back to Mint Big Temple at Rs. 20/- 22) Mayonnaise Vada Pav at General Muthaiah Street at Rs. 30/- 23) Andhra Punagullu 8 Nos Rs. 20/- at Pondy Bazaar. 24) Spl. Bhelpuri next Bata Showroom at Usman Road Rs. 25/- 25) Mixed Fruit Juice With Badam Milk Next to Mylapore Isabel Rs. 10/- 26) Chenna Samosa at Venkatnarayan Road next to TTD at Rs. 25/- 27) All Time Mango Juice at Rs. 10/- at purasaiwalkam next to Abhirami Megamall. 28) Nanari Sharbat Soda Rs. 20/- outside of Chetpet Railway Station. 29) Rose Milk near Karpagambal Mess next to Gandhi Mandapam at Mylapore Rs. 10/- 30) Badam Milk Rs. 50 big glass opp to Kakada better than kakada. 31) Agarwal Bhojnalaya unlimited Rajasthani Thali at Rs. 120 next to patni plaza. 32) Crispy & Hot Medu Vada outside chetpet Railway Station. 33) Samosa with Spicy Chutney Rs. 10 for 2 at Tambaram Sanitorium. 34) Sambar Vada & Rava Upma for Rs. 25/- at T.Nagar Railway Station 35) West Mambalam Venkateshwara Medu Bonda & Jeera Boli for Rs. 10/- 36) Granita for Rs. 60/- next to pondy bazaar petrol bank 37) Spl. Kerala Chips near loyala college at Rs. 30 for 250 grams 38) Any Flavoured Juice at Rs. 5 at Kodambakkam. 39) Veechu Parotta Rs. 70 at Bakya. 40) Nainappa Naicken Street entrance Chinnappa Chettiar Spicy Sandwhich after 4pm only available Rs. 20/-

Thursday, December 12, 2019

Alzheimer's - Signs /Symptoms, "Going Home", Dementia



Asking to go home: 









Additional reading

Caregiver Syndrome

"Many exhausted, ill caregivers today don't seek help because they don't realize that they have a recognizable condition. According to a report from the National Consensus Development Conference on Caregiving, the most common psychological symptoms of caregiver syndrome are depression, anxiety and anger. Peter Vitaliano, a professor of geriatric psychiatry at the University of Washington and an expert on caregiving, said that the chronic stress of caring for someone can lead to high blood pressure, diabetes and a compromised immune system. In severe cases, caregivers can take on the symptoms of the person that they care for, he said. For example, a person caring for someone with dementia may develop progressive memory loss. Worse still, this syndrome can lead to death. Elderly caregivers are at a 63 percent higher risk of mortality than noncaregivers in the same age group, according to a study by University of Pittsburgh researchers Richard Schulz and Scott Beach reported in the Journal of the American Medical Association in December 1999."

Additional reading

Wednesday, December 11, 2019

Deception Correlation With Extraversion And Intelligence

https://journals.plos.org/plosone/article?id=10.1371/journal.pone.0176591: "The novelty of the work presented here is the finding that the effect of extraversion on lying frequency depends on intelligence (or, conversely, effect of fluid intelligence on lying frequency depends on extraversion level). This finding links the well-established relationship between personality traits and deception frequency with cognitive aspects of lying. The role of fluid intelligence here is unclear. It might have an indirect effect on lying frequency by making the person a more successful liar, which in turn reinforces the use of deceptive behaviors. Alternatively, one might speculate that in the context of current studies that higher fluid intelligence made the participants pursue deception, realizing it to be the most successful strategy."

Intelligence, Education, Smoking, Caution And Parkinson's


  1. https://bloggingwithparkinsons.wordpress.com/2012/02/28/intelligence-and-parkinsons/
  2. https://www.livescience.com/20008-parkinsons-disease-personality-risk-avoidance.html "Since the early 1900s, there have been reports that Parkinson's patients tend to be industrious, punctual, cautious and risk-averse." If one includes lack of social networking, then we have I**J (as in MBTI) as a good candidate. "The results showed that participants with Parkinson's had higher levels of neuroticism — a personality trait associated with experiencing more negative emotions such as anxiety — and higher levels of harm-avoidance compared with healthy participants. In general, participants' willingness to take risks tended to be stable over time, and Parkinson's patients tended to report they took fewer risks." Neuroticism (5 factor) is very similar to J (MBTI).

Additional reading

Thursday, December 5, 2019

Dog Is Mad

https://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/2019/12/04/no-wonder-jonathan-turleys-dog-is-mad/ - "“I get it: You are mad,” he testified. “The president is mad. My Democratic friends are mad. My Republican friends are mad. My wife is mad. My kids are mad. Even my dog seems mad — and Luna is a goldendoodle and they don’t get mad. So we’re all mad.”

Damn right we are! But nowhere in the Constitution does it state that a president shall not be impeached if people — or their dogs — are mad."

Saturday, November 23, 2019

Mere Wetness Is Not Consent

"

Physical arousal is not consent

  • It bears importance to repeat this: Just because you get wet, it does not mean you are horny. It just means your body is responding functionally. You can be in a sexual situation and wet, but it is absolutely okay and normal not to want sex. Physical arousal does not equate sexual arousal.
  • Sexual arousal requires an emotional response. Wetness is not body language for consent, only an explicit “Yes” is"

Additional reading

Bedabrata Pain

Piece Of A Dog's Life

Female Authoritative Voices

Monday, November 18, 2019

Impeachment Politics

Dementia - Data, Cause, Remedy


Additional reading

Wednesday, October 23, 2019

Quid Pro Quo

"“When a businessman is about to sign a check to someone who owes him something, he said, the businessman asks that person to pay up before signing the check,” Mr. Taylor said, quoting Mr. Sondland. Mr. Volker “used the same terms several days later.” An Envoy’s Damning Account of Trump’s Ukraine Pressure and Its Consequences

Wednesday, October 9, 2019

East Pakistan Genocide - 1971


  1. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bangladesh_Liberation_War
  2. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Operation_Searchlight
  3. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/1970_Bhola_cyclone
  4. https://m.economictimes.com/news/defence/bangladesh-ups-ante-on-pakistan-demands-un-recognition-for-1971-genocide/articleshow/68590296.cms Quote: "Anthony Mascarenhas, a British journalist based in Pakistan, who was the first to break the news of the genocide in international media, reported a Pakistani army major telling him: “This is a war between the pure and the impure... The people here may have Muslim names and call themselves Muslims. But they are Hindu at heart. We are now sorting them out... Those who are left will be real Muslims."
  5. https://www.smithsonianmag.com/history/genocide-us-cant-remember-bangladesh-cant-forget-180961490/
  6. https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2013/09/23/unholy-alliances-3 Quote: "On December 16th, India forced Pakistan into an unconditional surrender in Dhaka. Ninety thousand Pakistani soldiers and civilians became prisoners of war—they remained in India until 1973—and Pakistan lost its most populous province. Defeat shocked many West Pakistanis, who had come to believe that one brave Muslim soldier equalled ten Hindu ones. From then on, shame and humiliation drove Pakistan’s military and intelligence establishment to seek “strategic depth” in Afghanistan and a policy of “death by a thousand cuts” in Indian-ruled Kashmir. " So, it's this humiliation that is behind the rage that Pakistan has towards India (=Hindus).
  7. http://herald.dawn.com/news/1153304 Quote: "Books on the history and politics of Bangladesh are hard to obtain in Pakistan. Publishers have mostly shown interest in reprinting and translating books which support Pakistan’s version of the 1971 war."

Additional reading

Thursday, October 3, 2019

Anti Pakistan Sentiments Across Countries - Wiki Essay And Indo Pak Conflict

E-Commerce In Pakistan

Miscellaneous News

Nizam Of Hyderabad Court Case - UK And Rahimtoola

Turkish Travel

Sunday, September 29, 2019

EuthanAsia


Additional reading
A strong grip? Push-ups? What actually can help you live to a ripe old age.  - "Research has identified chronic stresses that can provoke harmful biological changes, including living in poverty, caregiving for a dying spouse, losing a loved one, suffering post-traumatic stress disorder, and experiencing prejudice.

Thursday, September 12, 2019

Judge A Book By Cover

Never judge a book from its cover...... a lovely poem shared from WA...

The topper of the class,
is a happy homemaker.
Back bencher of the lot,
Is an entrepreneur.

The flambuoyant fashionista,
Became a dreaded lawyer.
Often ignored e Joe,
turned a well  known writer.

The one who failed in math paper,
is a fashion designer.
And one who often got to stand outside the class,
is a respected Army officer.

The reunion tought me how,
People come with many layers,
And told me why we should never
Judge a book by its cover…..

Each child out there has a different success story!!

Robert Mugabe

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Robert Mugabe was a tyrant, and dictator of ZIMBABWE who had to be separated from the presidency screaming and kicking. He died last week at the age of 95. He messed up the  Zimbabwe economy but had a great sense of humor.

Here is a collection for you to enjoy

1) "When your clothes are made of cassava leaves, you don’t take a goat as a friend."

2) "If you are ugly, you are ugly. Stop talking about inner beauty because men don’t walk around with X-ray machines to see inner beauty."

3) "When one’s goat gets missing, the aroma of a neighbor's soup gets suspicious."

4) "Treat every part of your towel nicely because the part that wipes your buttocks today will wipe your face tomorrow."

5) "Sometimes you look back at girls you spent money on, rather than send it to your mum, and you realize witchcraft is real."

6) "If President Barack Obama wants me to allow marriage for same-sex couples in my country (Zimbabwe), he must come here so that I marry him first."

7) "What is the problem with deporting white men from Africa? We now have aeroplanes which can take them back quicker than the ships used by their ancestors."

8) "Cigarette is a pinch of tobacco rolled in a piece of paper with fire on one end and a fool on the other end."

9) Interviewer: "Mr President, when are you bidding the people of Zimbabwe farewell?"
Robert Mugabe: "Where are they going?"

AND FINALLY the 'piece de resistance'

10) "If I am given a chance to travel through time, I will go back to 1946, find Donald Trump's father and give him a condom."

Expense Report

Chickpet, Bangalore is known as the business hub of Bangalore City with more than 1000 shops in the locality. 
This place is always crowed as people throng to buy clothes, furniture, toys etc. at a wholesale price. 
Yesterday, I had been there as part of my educational research to talk to a few shop keepers to understand how they do business and what education has to do to them, with regards to their business. 
During my interaction with many shop keepers in Chickpet, I found that, most of them were from Rajasthan. 
One more interesting thing that I found was that, most of them were in their teenage. 
Out of all, meeting a young 10th dropout who runs a clothes shop, was very interesting. 
His name is Bramhadev, from Rajasthan. I thought I should share a few our discussions here.
 
I went into the crowded shop as a customer, he greeted me with a great smile saying, "Anna banni, en bekithu". (Meaning : Brother, what do you want) (The conversation was in Kannada. I have translated it below)
 
Me : I wanted to check for some nice shirt and pant piece.
 
Bramhadev : Tell me Sir, what is the range you are looking for ?
 
Me : You first show me all the clothes, let me choose out of those.
 
Bramhadev : Sure sir and started showing me all his collections. (Meanwhile during the selection time, I thought I should ask him a few questions, which was my only intention)
 
Me : How did you learn Kannada ?
 
Bramhadev : Sir, obviously by talking to people.
 
Me : But, your Kannada is very fluent !
 
Bramhadev : Sir, initially I found it difficult, but, when I continued to speak to  customers, I learnt it on the fly. Now, I speak better than Bangalore Kanndigas.
 
Me : Superb. When did you start this business ?
 
Bramhadev : It’s almost 10 years now. I started it when I failed in my 10th. My uncle got me into this business.
 
Me : How many languages can you speak ?
 
Brahmadev : I can speak, Hindi, English, Kannada, Marathi, Tamil, Telugu & Malayalam.
 
Me : Oh my God ! How did you learn so many ?
 
Brahmadev : I told you Sir, Customers taught me.
 
Me : Sorry to ask you, but still out of curiosity, I just wanted to know what would be your monthly turnover ?
 
Brahmadev : Ummmm, it depends on the festival season. Normally, the turnover would be around 8 - 9 lakhs per month, and during festivals it will shoot up to 15 lakhs. Profit upto Rs. 4 lakh per month.
 
Me : What ? Oh my God ! That’s a super number ! Great, man !
 
Brahmadev : What great Sir ? In Chickpet, this is very less. Others make double than what I do.
 
Me : Didn't you feel like completing your education, by studying further ?
 
Brahmadev : Sir, to be honest, none of our family members have  completed their education. To complete my education it might take another 5 - 6 years which I feel is a big waste of time and money. I invested both of these, in my business. Today, I can  challenge that not even n one of the educated persons with a work experience of 10 years experience will earn as much as I do. What do you say Sir ?
 
Me : Hmmm....Yes. True. But still, education would have helped you grow more than what you are earning today.
 
Brahmadev : Seriously No Sir. Education would give us fear and make us feel that, one has to work under someone to earn their livelihood. Education does not teach us to live independently. I also have many friends who studied along with me and completed graduation. None are into business. Almost all of them are working in some private firm.
 
Me : Hmmmm....So you don't regret to have not completed Ur education ?
 
Bramhadev : Definitely No Sir. I am very happy. (In between our conversation, another customer had purchased around 20 pairs of shirts and pants and few sarees. Without using a calculator Bramhadev calculated the total cost of the purchase and told the customer the total cost including 10% discount in just 15 - 20 seconds).
 
Me : Boss, you don't even use a calculator ?
 
Bramhadev : Sir, educated people need the calculator and mobile phones, to calculate. Not me !
 
Me : Started smiling and put my head down (because I was using a calculator to calculate the cost of my purchase).
 
Bramhadev : I continuously practiced calculating. I am doing this since 10 years and I have become perfect. I am sure, I will never err in my calculation.
 
After this, I made a purchase and the whole of the next whole day, I was thinking about our conversation over and over. I would like to infer what I learnt....
 
After thought or moral of the story :
 
1. Without higher education, Bramhadev is not jobless. Whereas our today's graduates with distinction, are still in search of a job.
 
2. Without higher education, Bramhadev has good communication skills. But, today's corporate world complains about our graduates for having no communication skills.
 
3. Without higher education, Bramhadev earns in lakhs, where as our current generation graduates complains of not having enough salary to pay their EMIs.
 
4. Without higher education, Bramhadev's mathematical mind works faster than today's graduates who has cleared different levels of mathematics papers with high scores. Today's graduates need Mobile Phones to perform simple calculations.
 
5. Without higher education, Bramhadev has no fear of losing his job, but today's graduate employees are always in the fear of getting fired from the company they are working in.
 
Now, thinking aloud………………How does higher education help one ?

Wednesday, September 11, 2019

Spinoza And God

Apparently, when Einstein attended some conferences in the numerous universities of the USA, the recurring question that the students asked him was:

*- Do you believe in God?*

And he always answered:
*- I believe in the God of Spinoza.*

For the ones who haven't read Spinoza
hope this shall give them an idea:

Baruch De Spinoza was a Dutch philosopher, of Portuguese Jewish origin, considered one of the great rationalists of his time along with the French philosopher Rene Descartes. Spinoza was born in Amsterdam in the 17th century of a businessman father who was successful but not wealthy.

*This follows from the nature of the God of Spinoza:*

*God would have said:-*

"Stop  praying and giving yourselves blows on your chests, what I want you to do is to go out into the world to enjoy your life.
I want you to enjoy, you sing, have fun and enjoy everything I've done for you.
Stop going to those gloomy, dark and cold temples that you built yourself and that you call my home.
My house is in the mountains, in the forests, the rivers, the lakes, the beaches. That's where I live and express all my love for you.
Stop blaming me for your miserable life; I never told you that you were a sinner.

Stop being so scared. I do not judge you, nor criticize you, nor ever is angry with you, nothing bothers me, nor do I devise punishment. I am pure love.

Stop asking me forgiveness, there's nothing to forgive. If I made you... I filled you with passions, limitations, pleasures, feelings, needs, inconsistencies... of free will, how can I blame you if you do or say something out of that what I put in you? How can I punish you for being as you are, if I'm the one who made you? Do you think I could create a place to burn all my children who misbehave, for the rest of eternity?
What kind of God can do that?
Forget about any kind of commandments, of any kind of laws; those are wiles to manipulate you, to control you and  only to create guilt in you.
Respect your peers and don't do to others what you don't want for you. The only thing I ask is that you pay attention in your life, that your alert status is your guide. This life is the only thing there is, here and now and the only thing you need.

I have made you absolutely free, there are no prizes or punishments, there are no sins or virtues, no one carries a marker, no one carries a record.
You are absolutely free to create in your life a heaven or hell.

I couldn't tell you if there's anything after this life, but I can give you a tip. Live as if there wasn't.
As if this was your only chance to enjoy, to love, to exist.

So, if there is nothing, then you will have enjoyed the opportunity I gave you. And if there is, be sure that I will not ask you if you behaved well or not, I will ask you. Did you like it?... did you have fun ?..What did you enjoy the most? What did you learn?...

Stop believing in me; believe is to assume, guess, imagine. I don't want you to believe in me, I want you to feel me when you kiss your beloved, when you play with your little girl, when you love your dog, when you bathe in the sea.

Stop praising me. What kind of egotistical God do you think I am?
I'm bored of your praise, I'm fed up with thanks . Do you feel grateful? Prove it taking care of yourself, your health, your relationships, the world around you. Do you feel  overwhelmed?... Express your joy! That's the way to praise me.

The only thing sure is that you are here, that you are alive, that this world is full of wonders.

What do you need more miracles for?
Why so many explanations?

Don't look for me outside, you won't find me. Find me inside... there I'm beating in you."

*Baruch De Spinoza*

Monday, September 9, 2019

Maps Don't Lie

https://www.nytimes.com/2019/09/08/opinion/trump-hurricane-map.html - "Trump doesn’t see the truth as rigid, absolute and unassailable. For Trump, truth is like Play-Doh: You can shape it however you want, squash it, or ignore it all together. It is a thing to be toyed with."

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